Avoiding Vixen Scammers

Sometimes the difference between a pleasant foreign dating experience and disastrous one, is falling victim to scammers and con artists. The most common situation men run into is when beautiful foreign women try to trick them out of their hard earned cash. These ladies are only interested in earning a living and they prey on lonely Western men because unfortunately these guys make such good targets. The surprising thing about all of this though, is that it is shockingly easy to avoid being scammed. All men have to do is refuse to give her any money or gifts of substantial value for a long enough period of time.

How long is long enough, you ask? Well, that is a more difficult question to answer but I can certainly tell you when it is too soon. You have not waited long enough if you have only met her on the internet or talked to her on the telephone. I don’t care if you spent the last five years corresponding with her via email, you have not done your due diligence and should not send her money. Even after you have met her in person, and she actually looks like her pictures and you still have chemistry, it is definitely still too soon to give her any money and probably too soon to buy her any gifts of substantial value. Okay, yes, it is alright to buy her flowers and take her out to dinner. Just don’t go buying her a new cell phone because her phone supposedly just broke, or buy her a new pair of shoes so she has something to wear on your date tonight, or buy her something for whatever malady suddenly befell her. This advice might sound harsh especially if you are in love at this point. But there is something you should know. It’s a little secret that some foreign women do not want you to discover. And that is that these girls almost always act exactly the same as Western women on this front. If a good Western woman would not ask you to buy her a new phone or shoes on your first meeting, neither would a good foreign woman. Plus, good Western women almost never ask a man for money outright and they certainly don’t ask for money right after meeting him.

I know, I know, but this situation is different. She is from a poor country and has little opportunity. Besides you can tell that she is not that type of person. Maybe yes, maybe no. Of course, it is interesting to ponder how exactly she could afford the shoes that she is currently wearing, or how she bought the phone that she was using, or how she survived her entire life before the day she met you? Keep these questions in mind the next time a foreign woman asks you for a handout. Also, one positive thing to remember is that the vast majority of foreign women looking to date Western men are truly genuine in their desire for love and marriage. Indeed, from my own experience in the past, more than a few lovely ladies have given me gifts, offered to pay on dates, brought me food, made me dinner, and a whole slew of amazingly thoughtful acts.

If you follow my advice and your beautiful woman doesn’t go anywhere, she could be a keeper. On the other hand, if she is a scammer and you don’t buy her any gifts or give her any money, she will disappear before you know it. And that is a great thing because there are plenty of other wonderful attractive nice women out there for Western men.